Help your kids
๐นIf your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour.
๐นIf your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you've lost them.
๐นIf your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
๐นIf your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
๐นIf your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want.
๐นIf your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
๐นIf your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.
๐นIf your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.
๐นIf your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.
๐นIf your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
๐นIf your child is openly defied, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through.
๐นIf your child is secretive, it is because they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion.
๐นIf your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour.
๐นIf your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions.
๐นIf your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right or wrong.
Change starts at home. Try a few if not all. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
๐นIf your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour.
๐นIf your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you've lost them.
๐นIf your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
๐นIf your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
๐นIf your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want.
๐นIf your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
๐นIf your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.
๐นIf your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.
๐นIf your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.
๐นIf your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
๐นIf your child is openly defied, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through.
๐นIf your child is secretive, it is because they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion.
๐นIf your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour.
๐นIf your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions.
๐นIf your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right or wrong.
Change starts at home. Try a few if not all. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
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